What are your middle names?
How long have you been together?
just over 5.5 years.
How long did you know each other before you started dating?
a minute, maybe.
Who asked whom out?
i think it was technically me, as i’m the one who asked, after our first weekend together, “so, does this mean you’re my girlfriend now?”
How old are each of you?
Whose siblings do you see the most?
my sister e lives in dallas, and so we see her every few months. we see my other 2 sisters less frequently. h’s brother lives in tiny, tx, and when he’s not taking care of cows, we say hello when we visit her mum.
Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
this deserves a blogpost of its own, but definitely the balance of “us the couple” and “us the parents”. and then there’s the pesky little issue called “finances”. ugh. yeah. that.
Did you go to the same school?
negative. i went to malone college and belmont university for my BA, and she went to texas a&m and university of tx for hers. i spent a semester at st edwards working on a masters, and she did her masters at tx state. i did get rejected from the tx state writing program, though.
Are you from the same home town?
that would also be a no. i’m from erie, pa, and h is from tiny, tx.
Who is smarter?
we argue about this. but this is my meme, so i get to tell the truth: h. she is a renaissance woman, and i think it’s hott.
Who is the most sensitive?
probably me. my chin quivers more, anyway.
Where do you eat out most as a couple?
um. we don’t anymore, but we used to frequent opal divines. ah, the good old days.
Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
hmm. i think erie is farther than chicago, so erie!
Who has the craziest exes?
h, hands down. i’ve never dated a lying insomniac who is obsessed with joining the military.
Who has the worst temper?
i’m thinking it’s me. i’m primarily laid back, but i’m i’m also a bottler, and when i erupt, i punch walls…never people.
Who does the cooking?
h. always. cooking causes me great anxiety.
Who is the neat-freak?
h goes crazy faster when things are a mess.
Who is more stubborn?
sweet lord, me.
Who hogs the bed?
Who wakes up earlier?
me. usually. even on days off.
Where was your first date?
it began at the nashville airport, where i picked up this visiting stranger i’d fallen in love with already.
Who is more jealous?
i think we’re equally not jealous.
How long did it take to get serious?
it was always serious. we took a whole lot of risks with our hearts from the first day. it has always been one of those “i know you’re the one” relationships.
Who eats more?
probably me. but i also burn more calories, what with this ice cream i lactate.
Who does the laundry?
i am not averse to the laundry-doing, but our schedule currently dictates h doing most of the chores.
Who’s better with the computer?
me, but neither of us are evil geniuses when it comes to teh computerz.
Who drives when you are together?
me. unless i’m:
c: drunk and tired
in the immortal words of dooce: “Feel free to answer some or all of the same questions about your significant other in the comments, or leave a link to your website if you prefer answering there.”